9 Best Panty Vibrators and Vibrating Panties in 2022 for Discreet Fun: We-Vibe, Lovehoney, Dame, Amazon | SELF

2022-11-14 00:38:54 By : Ms. Hiho wang

If you've never heard of panty vibrators, you're in for a treat. The best panty vibrators (and vibrating panties) slide inside underwear or are built-in, making for delicious, hands-free partner play. We spoke to sex experts and sex educators to answer the biggest questions about these sex toys and break down the very best panty vibes for your (uniquely private) pleasure.

In a nutshell: “A panty vibrator is a wearable vibrator that is hidden in the underwear for discreet clitoral stimulation,” says sex therapist and Lovehoney representative, Shamyra Howard, LCSW. “The vibrator is remote-controlled or app-controlled so that you or your partner can have control of the pleasure.” Pump

9 Best Panty Vibrators and Vibrating Panties in 2022 for Discreet Fun: We-Vibe, Lovehoney, Dame, Amazon | SELF

Vibrating panties, on the other hand, have the mini vibrator, bullet vibrator, or stimulation already sewn into the underwear. While most panty vibes and vibrating panties offer clitoral stimulation, there are models on the market that do even more, notes Rae Chen, sex-and-beauty editor of TheNotice.net: “You can find wearable, insertable G-spot vibrators, dual-stimulation toys, and air-pulse toys too.”

One of the biggest benefits of panty vibrators is their discretion and versatility. Because the toys are worn inside your undies, you can use them pretty much anywhere—on a date night and beyond—without a soul knowing. “From the couch to the grocery store to the movie theater, there are endless options for discreet indoor or outdoor play sessions,” says G Stone, certified clinical sexologist and founder of Straight But Not Narrow Ladies.

As most vibrators are app-controlled, it's easy to give your partner the ability to control them remotely—an excellent way to add new thrills to any long-distance relationship. As Carol Queen, sex educator and staff at Good Vibrations says, panty vibes can also be a smart assistive device for anyone who doesn't have great hand strength or motor control. Nicely, panty vibrators work as external vibrators sans underwear, too, with various vibration patterns and strengths.

“Think about the features that are important to you (such as sound, strength, remote control), then shop accordingly,” says Queen. Some questions Howard recommends asking yourself include: Where will you use this toy? Who will you use it with? How important is it that your toy is rechargeable, waterproof, hands-free, and quiet?

If you're shopping for a panty vibrator (not vibrating panties), consider how the toy attaches to your undies. “Look for options that fasten securely (via magnetic clip) so that they stay in place,” says Stone, emphasizing that you should always opt for 100% body-safe materials.

Then, factor in the toy's intensities, speeds, texture, and shape. Ensure that it's wide, narrow, or long enough to align with the circumference of your clit, advises Stone. If you want to pair the panty vibe with tighter clothing, it's best to avoid “bullet-vibe-lookin' bulges,” says Queen.

Below, we've curated a list of the best panty vibrators (and vibrating panties) as recommended by the experts. You'll find nice options from retailers and brands like Amazon, We-Vibe, Dame, Lovehoney, and more.

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The We-Vibe Moxie comes highly recommended by experts. “It's a great choice not only because of design and its many cool features (waterproof, multiple patterns, remote- or app-controlled so you can use it with your partner when apart), but because the brand thoughtfully added a magnet to keep the vibrator attached to your panties,” says Queen. “It's quieter than most too.”

“If you’re looking for a discreet, waterproof panty vibrator that you or your partner can control and you can bring on the go, then you want to try the Fifty Shades of Gray Relentless Vibrations Remote Panty Vibrator,” says Howard. The egg vibrator is curved to nestle into underwear, is remote-controllable, and comes with 10 patterns and six intensity levels.

For a dual stimulation sex toy, look no further than Howard's favorite Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Panty Vibrator. “If you're looking for a vibrator [with] strong sensations that fits snugly in your panties and offers direct clitoral stimulation, this one's for you,” she says. The waterproof, rechargeable rabbit vibrator has 12 vibe modes and flexible, silicone ears that tickle the clit. Conveniently, the toy has a travel lock, so that it only vibrates when you wish.

For a panty vibrator that stays put, Queen recommends the waterproof, pulsating Calexotics, which has unique magnetic wings that fold around your underwear to ensure they don't budge. The vibe has 12 patterns and a remote control that works from up to 32 feet away.

Want to give vibrating panties a go? The remote-controllable Ohmibod Club Vibe fits into a special pouch inside of a lacy black thong, and Queen raves about it because it syncs with the vibrations of the music you're listening to. “It uses your clit as a ‘listening’ device,” she says. “The Club Vibe is a very fun toy; it responds to speech, too, if you and your boo stay home." This means that your partner can dirty-talk you and the vibrator will buzz in harmony.

Here's a discreet vibrator for couple's play from sexpert-favorite brand Dame. The “wings” of the wearable vibrator slide under the labia, so that it can be worn for hands-free clit stimulation during vaginal and anal sex. It can also be worn as a panty vibrator.

“Panty vibrators tend to have weaker vibrations as they prioritize size and noise level," says Chen. To up the oomph, she recommends pairing a panty vibe such as the Swan Leaf, which is waterproof, rechargeable, and remote-controllable, with a “tiny, travel-friendly toy like the We-Vibe Tango or Satisfyer Pro Traveler for extra intensity when your clothes come off."

For $50, you can try panty vibrators without blowing your budget. But don't be fooled: The Lovehoney Rendezvous packs a bunch of features, with its six vibration patterns and five intensity levels. Reviewers note that it's not the quietest model, however, so if you're into exhibitionism, it may not be the one for you. 

You can use this panty vibrator as a regular external vibe, but the device comes with a lacy thong that has a hidden pocket to secure this mini toy, which is saddle-shaped to precisely stimulate the clit. Its included remote works up to around 32 feet. (One note is that this device is not rechargeable and requires button cell batteries to run.)

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9 Best Panty Vibrators and Vibrating Panties in 2022 for Discreet Fun: We-Vibe, Lovehoney, Dame, Amazon | SELF

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